Porque só o cume interessa.

Just finished watching "Up In The Air" and I like it a lot!
It's the movie discuss the point of setting up or, in a better way, if it has a point on setting up.
Racionally, I understand that getting marriege and having kids is something comon and it's a human need to survive and keep the species.

I belive the only reason to have childen is to protect human specie from extinction. Indeed, I also belive that we wouldn't spend a lifetime taking care of little us. Have strong protective feelings for these small creatures and be willing to starve and die to make them live if paternity wasn't something, at least, magical.
So with kids I'm cool...
Hehehehehe....I just keep thinking: "Se eu sou uma gracinha desse tamanho, imagina eu em miniatura." I would be irresistable!

In another hand, every relationship I saw in a closer perspective was full of problem. Tons of...
So what's the point on cultivating something so problematic?
Altough it's still a strage to me. After 5 years of psychology I kind of get the idea of not being genetically programed to suvive alone and the concept of being easier to get over difficoult situations when you have social support.

Besides the set or not set up question there is a part on the movie that "George Clooney's date" says something I really liked. And her quotes are the reason this text is in english today!

She says: "You know, honestly by the time you're 34, all the physical requirements just go out the window. You secretly pray that he'll be taller than you, not an asshole would be nice just someone who enjoys my company, comes from a good family. You don't think about that when you're younger. Someone who wants kinds/ likes kids/wants kids. Healthy enough to play with his kids. Please let him earn more money than I do, you might not understand that now but believe me, you will one day otherwise that's a recipe for disaster. And hopefully, some hair on his head. I mean, that's not even a deal breaker these days. A nice smile. Yea, a nice smile just might do it."

I'm 34 years old. It is for a strange reason - wich I really don't know why - they forgot to count and make me look older.

See ya!

Rio, 28 de maio de 2010.

Em resposta ao meu proprio questionamento:

" Porque a vida, mesmo que bem-sucedida nao esta completa se nao tem-se com quem dividir; Se nao tem-se para quem contar tudo de maravilhoso e horroso que passou no seu dia. Sem o outro ela eh uma esfera oca.
Porque os pais, quando temos sorte, no meio de nossas vidas morrem; E alguem tem de acompanhar as suas dores, as suas alegrias, os seus amores e os seus filhos."

Assunto do próximo post:

"Se conhecemos o inimigo e a nós mesmos, não precisamos temer o resultado de uma centena de combates. Se nos conhecemos, mas não ao inimigo, para cada vitória sofreremos uma derrota. Se não nos conhecemos nem ao inimigo, sucumbiremos em todas as batalhas".

(A Arte da Guerra - Sun Tzu 500 a.C.)